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Have you ever felt unloved in marriage? Even when your spouse says that they love you? In today’s interview on the Christian Habits Podcast, I talk with bestselling author Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (author of Love and Respect) about why so many couples feel disconnected—even when they both care deeply about each other.
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We discuss:
- Why you can feel unloved even when your spouse has goodwill
- The difference between being wrong vs. just different
- The common criticism–withdrawal pattern in marriage
- How men and women often respond differently in conflict
- The 15-minute rule that can help you reconnect
- How to approach difficult conversations in a healthier way
One of the most freeing ideas from this conversation is that many marriage struggles aren’t about one person being wrong—but about seeing things differently and learning how to navigate those differences with wisdom and grace.
If you want a more peaceful, connected relationship, this conversation will give you practical tools and a fresh perspective.
About Emerson Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
This dynamic and life-changing conference is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships. Dr. Eggerichs has authored many books, including the national bestseller Love & Respect, which is a Platinum and Book of the Year award winner, selling over 2.3 million copies.
Emerson is the Founder and President of Love and Respect Ministries and Sarah serves as Vice President. Married since 1973, they live in Grand Rapids, MI and have three adult children.
📖 Learn more about Emerson Eggerichs and his book Lightbulb Moments in Marriage:
https://www.loveandrespect.com
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