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6 Things I Learned About Pursuing Goals

January 8, 2016 By: Barb Raveling

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Do you ever wish pursuing goals were just a little bit easier? Less struggle? Less work? Less failure? Whether your goal is to write a book, finish college, break free from a stronghold, or lose 50 pounds, we’re all in the same boat. We’re trying to do something we haven’t done before. And it’s hard.

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If you’re anything like me, it’s easy to give up after the first week or so. This blog is an example. I’ve been wanting to redesign it for at least a couple of years now, but it just seemed too hard. Every time I started working on it, I gave up because of all of the complications.

But finally after countless renewing of the mind sessions with God on goals in general, a new app that helped me clarify and prioritize my goals, an online Bible study (thanks, you guys!) that supported me in overcoming procrastination, and my wonderful blog designer, Jessica, at thepixelista.com, the blog is finished. It’s exciting.

Here are a few things I learned along the way (and am still trying to pound into my head) about pursuing goals.

6 Things I Learned About Pursuing Goals

6 Things I Learned About Pursuing Goals

1. Be willing to step–and live–outside of your comfort zone.

I don’t know about you, but for me, life is just easier when I don’t do that much. I like setting goals, but when it comes right down to it, I don’t always like working on them. Too uncomfortable.

I hate to say this, but if we want to reach our goals, we have to not only step outside of our comfort zone, but also live outside of our comfort zone. That’s scary.

Thankfully, God is our refuge. If we go to Him when we’re scared, the discomfort zone can become a place of cozy, but powerful, refuge.

2. Lower your expectations and be willing to suffer.

I know, this sounds a little defeatist. After all, aren’t we supposed to have high expectations? Reach for all the stars? Go for the gold? Maybe. But if we’re going to reach for the stars, we have to remember it will take a long time to get there. A lot longer than if we were reaching for the house across the street, for example.

The truth is, it’s hard to reach lofty goals. We’re probably going to fail somewhere along the way, maybe a bunch of times, and it will be hard to persevere. If we want to actually reach those goals, we’ll have to keep working on them even when everything within us wants to throw in the towel and give up.

3. Stop complaining about how hard it is and thank God for the blessings.

Our nature is to complain and think thoughts like, Why is this so hard? and Why doesn’t God make this easier? We think those thoughts because we live in rich countries where things comes easily. But remember all those guys in Hebrews 11 and also the Old Testament and New Testament in general? They didn’t have easy lives.

God teaches us through trials, and sometimes those trials come in the form of goals. One of the things He wants to teach us is to be content in all situations and to give thanks always. If we remember what life is really about (God), it will be easier to give thanks.

4. Go to God for help with your problems, not your coping techniques.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t always go running to God every time I’m discouraged about my goal. Instead, I check my emails, check my Facebook, get a cup of coffee, and wander around the house for awhile. Sometimes all day.

How much better off I’d be if I went to God every time. When I go to God, He gives me truth, grace, comfort, strength, and moral support. That’s about a million times better than my feeble attempts at dealing with my problems. He’s the One that gives me the strength to carry on when I’m working on goals I can’t do in my own strength.

5. Stop fearing the giants.

Do you remember how David’s brothers and all the rest of the Israel army were afraid of Goliath? They were so afraid of him, no one was willing to fight him. I’m guessing David might have been afraid of him too, but he trusted in God so much that he was willing to fight the giant.

When our eyes are on the goal, it’s easy to think of all the reasons we won’t be able to accomplish it. When our eyes are on God, suddenly it doesn’t matter so much whether or not we accomplish the goal. He reminds us of what life is really about, and surprisingly, that makes it easier to work on the goal again because we don’t fear failure so much.

6. Enjoy the Process.

My husband is great at just relaxing and enjoying life. I’m great at relaxing and enjoying life too, but usually only when I’m with people, doing something fun, or on vacation. In work (i.e. writing) life, which I’m still a bit new at, I tend to stress.

God keeps reminding me, “Stop, Barb. Enjoy the process! Enjoy me in the midst of the process!” I’m still not living consistently in that place of enjoyment but I get tastes of it now and then and I like what I see.

I just started a new journal this morning, and after renewing my mind about various aspects of writing consistently for the last 3 1/2 years, this year I’m going to try to renew my mind every single time I’m feeling fearful or stressed about writing or anything writing related. I feel like the stronghold is about to crumble. Any prayers would be appreciated!

My prayer for all of us this year is that we grow closer to God, grow in the areas we need to grow in, and love others well as we do life together. Let’s enjoy the journey!

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  1. Christina says

    January 12, 2016 at 5:18 pm

    I love the new blog look!!

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 12, 2016 at 5:34 pm

      Thanks, Christina, I love what Jessica did with it – it was a modification of another theme. So fun to have a new design!

  2. Caleb says

    January 13, 2016 at 5:47 am

    Stepping out of your comfort zone is so hard because you want to make goals you can reach and sometimes the temptation is to just make them a little too easy. Usually my wife can see right through me and she catches me when I try to do that.

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 13, 2016 at 11:47 am

      That’s great that your wife helps you with that, Caleb. My husband and I are both comfort zone people by nature, so it doesn’t come easily to us. Especially since I tend to be a pessimist and think that I won’t reach any goals I set. :) Thank God that He is powerful and full of truth and grace and encouragement – I’m so grateful for all He’s done in helping me work towards difficult goals.

  3. Floyd says

    January 13, 2016 at 10:26 am

    Good advice, Barb. I think the most underrated gift from God of all the gifts He gives is the gift of perseverance. I’m convinced we can’t please God without it and we won’t find the gratification He’s designed in this world without it.

    I’ll subscribe again because I didn’t get anything… again! (I used my spider senses)…

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 13, 2016 at 11:53 am

      Ha! I’m thankful for your spider senses, Floyd. It’s possible the other post went into your spam account – I wasn’t sure how this was going to work switching to a different mailing list. I agree with you about perseverance. I missed out on that natural gift, but thankfully God has been developing it in me during the past 8 years with writing. Some of my kids have it naturally and it is such an amazing gift as it applies to so many areas of life.

  4. Floyd says

    January 13, 2016 at 10:27 am

    Oh yeah. And I like the new diggs!

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 13, 2016 at 11:54 am

      Thanks, Floyd. I told my husband I feel like I just had my office remodeled!

  5. merrycarr05 says

    January 15, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    Love the new blog, it’s fantastic!! And this is a great article–one to bookmark for the future for sure. Thanks for sharing with and encouraging us!!

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 15, 2016 at 6:24 pm

      Thanks so much Merry! So glad you like the new look to the blog!

  6. Tc Avey says

    January 22, 2016 at 11:15 am

    Great post! I’m learning to enjoy the process and stop complaining. I’m working on focusing on God this year and not my circumstances.

    Loving the new look of your blog! Great job.

    • Barb Raveling says

      January 22, 2016 at 12:50 pm

      That’s a great goal, TC. I feel like I’ve been working on that one for the last few years. It’s a toughie!

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